1.Don’t casually ask about marriage or health matters.Bringing up topics like marriage can be seen not just as boring, but even intentionally awkward in today’s society.As for health, everyone’s physical condition is an important “asset” for functioning in society, so people generally don’t share the full truth about it.If others aren’t willing to tell you, then don’t press the issue~
2. Don’t casually ask about age or occupation.Age is commonly regarded as “private” in real life, and talking about getting older is often avoided.Work is a major aspect of life, and the quality of one’s job reflects their social standing. When you're not well-acquainted, asking too much about either can make things uncomfortable—for you or the other person.
3. Don’t ask about income or address. These are sensitive areas of personal privacy, and bringing them up can come off as rude.Income is closely tied to a person’s abilities and is related to self-respect. Once these topics come up in conversation, it can make the interaction feel unequal and undignified.Home addresses are considered private territory by modern people, so they are not shared with strangers. Even home phone numbers are usually kept confidential.
4.Don’t borrow money or gear from fellow outdoor enthusiasts. It’s awkward enough to ask friends or colleagues for money—don’t bring it up with your outdoor buddies.
5. Don’tDrop by a fellow outdoor enthusiast’s home unannounced and disrupt their normal life without permission. People in China tend to be quite wary of strangers, so doing this is not only impolite but could also cause them trouble.
6. Don’tPublicly share a fellow outdoor enthusiast’s phone number, home address, or other private information without their consent.
7. Don’t ask to drink from someone else’s water supply,Water is extremely important during outdoor activities,so typically, every experienced outdoor goer will carefully control how much water they carry based on the journey length, always ensuring their supply doesn’t run out. But newcomers lack experience—some dare to head out without a water bottle at all, some guzzle water after just a few breaths of hiking, and others finish their own supply and then ask others for theirs. This is not only unhygienic, but also puts the other person in an awkward spot. What if they’re heading deep into the wilderness? That last bit of water might be what saves their life.On top of hygiene issues, it can also make others uncomfortable—especially if they need that water for survival in remote areas.
8. Don’t borrow someone else’s sleeping bag. Borrowing a sleeping bag is highly unhygienic. After a day outdoors, it’s common to sweat and smell, which could ruin someone else’s gear. They’re unlikely to want to use it again. If you’re serious about outdoor adventures, just buy your own full set of gear.
9. Don’t ask to “borrow light”—and here, we mean actualoutdoor light sources, including flashlights, headlamps, candles, matches, chemical heat strips, and canned heat devices. These are all consumables. Aside from shared gear, they’re generally not loaned out.To reduce the weight you carry, most people pack only what they personally need, and once consumables are gone, you can’t buy electricity in the wild!So, every outdoor enthusiast must bring their own dedicated light source (flashlight, headlamp, batteries), and it’s wise to carry a portable power bank as well. Also, ensure switches are secure to prevent accidental activation inside your backpack.
Follow the above tips, and you’re sure to become a well-loved member of any outdoor group~