First, avoid improper forms of address.Monks in temples should be respectfully addressed as “Master” or “Venerable,” Taoist priests as “Taoist Master,” and the abbot as “Elder,” “Abbot,” or “Chan Master.” Monks in lamaseries should be respectfully called “Lama,” which means “Guru.”


Second, avoid inappropriate etiquette.The proper way to greet monks is to put your palms together and slightly bow your head, or place one palm vertically in front of your chest with your head slightly lowered. Avoid handshakes, hugs, touching the monks’ heads, or any other improper gestures.

Third, avoid inappropriate conversation.When talking to monks or Taoists, do not mention words related to killing, marriage, or the consumption of meat or pungent foods, as these may offend them.


Fourth, avoid improper behavior.Do not make loud noises, point and comment, mock, or wander around aimlessly when visiting temples. Do not touch or move anything in the temple, especially avoid touching or carving on statues. If you encounter a Buddhist ceremony, stand quietly and observe, or leave discreetly. Also, keep an eye on your children to prevent them from doing something disrespectful out of ignorance.