Stay harmonious during Lunar New Year travels: Avoid these six anger triggers

By Kumiko
 
It’s common to go out during the Lunar New Year holiday. According to tradition, "walking spring" (走春) is believed to bring good fortune and luck. Many people visit temples on the first day of the Lunar New Year or plan trips to scenic spots to ensure a joyful and auspicious holiday, but many also experience friction or displeasure during this time. Since family and friends may have different ideas about "walking spring," be especially aware of and avoid the following common causes of arguments—staying on good terms during the holidays is always better.

1. Lack of prior communication about schedules

During the holiday period, most people have time off. Aside from family gatherings, individuals often have different ideas about how to use their time—some may want to meet up with friends, old classmates from their hometown, or their romantic partner. Without discussing everyone’s schedules in advance, it’s difficult to align the timing for group outings or "walking spring." Just failing to coordinate schedules can cause displeasure among family members. If you want to arrange a family "walking spring" trip, be sure to discuss everyone’s availability first.

2. No advance planning of the itinerary

Family members have varying preferences for "walking spring" destinations depending on their age and mobility. For instance, elders may consider physical stamina and convenience, while families with young children will think about whether the destination is suitable for both kids and adults. If driving, parking availability becomes a concern. Others might prioritize visiting new attractions or taking great photos. Without gathering everyone’s opinions and understanding their needs and expectations beforehand, the so-called "walking spring" trip may not even happen—or, if it does, unpleasant moments or conflicts could easily arise along the way.

3. Disagreements over cost sharing

Travel involves various expenses—from meals and transportation to entrance fees, accommodation, and souvenirs—all of which can spark differing opinions among travel companions. It’s best to be considerate and understand that these costs are a natural part of traveling together, so as to avoid planting the seeds of arguments and resentment due to differing views on money matters.

4. Different travel habits

Everyone has different standards when it comes to traveling. Some can’t stand crowded places, others dislike overly packed itineraries, some are unhappy if they don’t get to visit must-see spots, others feel the need for new attractions, and some may even get upset over not taking satisfactory photos.

In addition, the pace of the trip affects the overall enjoyment. For example, some prefer to keep things moving, while others want to linger longer at each spot. Even this difference can quickly build up dissatisfaction.

5. No one takes the lead

A family or friends’ trip is essentially a small group outing, which naturally requires someone to act as the leader or guide. While it may not be possible to officially assign someone, it’s ideal to have one or two people primarily responsible for coordinating and arranging the itinerary—and even making key decisions when needed. The rest can patiently and graciously cooperate and accommodate, which helps ease any disagreements during the trip.

6. Bad weather or too many people

Some people have no interest in crowded attractions, and going to such places just because they’re popular during the Lunar New Year can easily disappoint them. Additionally, bad weather—whether too cold or rainy—can also dampen spirits or spark debates over whether to go or not, increasing the chances of friction during discussions.

The above five common anger triggers during "walking spring" trips vary in severity from family to family. The most important thing is to calmly discuss and accommodate one another. If anyone feels upset, remember not to lose your temper or say harsh words. Stay peaceful and content during the holidays—don’t sweat the small stuff, cherish the time together, and create wonderful memories with family and friends through your travels. That’s how you ensure a joyful, lucky Lunar New Year atmosphere and good fortune.

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